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Vol. 1 · Issue 05 · May 2026
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This is NOT the DXXX You Sent Me! | Gay Catfish Confessions

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@freemagicfun
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8:55 Sorry Meng... changing the lighting is a filter. Changing the shape or size is catfishing.

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@quantafreeze
41 · 1 replies↗ view

I think it's wild that Meng thinks he needs a filter. Meng is so handsome 😍

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@johnscarroll5038
24 · 2 replies↗ view

If you catfish, if you are false about who you are and what you look like, you are removing consent from the interaction. Someone cannot give fully informed consent to something that is not reality.

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@viewtiful
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love how real and honest this channel is. meng's insecurity and andrew's depressing resignation of life which causes them both to change things about themselves is sooo fascinating. they're not horrible people but then you see videos like this and understand they aren't amazing p…

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@HotDilf
18 · 2 replies↗ view

That's why I prefer bathhouses - I prefer shopping in person than online 😂

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@truerthanyouknow9456
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I love that it's always "finish and leave." It's never just "leave". 😁

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@3stesse
15 · 3 replies↗ view

Completely agree with Andrew: I am really not interested in guys' online self-presentation. Instead, I want to know what I'm getting when we meet.

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@daxdeoleo
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We're really LUCKY (and I can't stress it enough) that catfishing here in Japan is "harmless" in most cases. In my country, the Dominican Republic, there are criminals and organized crime networks that catfish men to scam them (which happened to me once) or to kidnapping or k*ll…

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@ReneH7
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The most important thing is always how you feel in the situation. If it feels wrong - end it. Don't neglect yourself to avoid an uncomfortable situation because you will still be uncomfortable just for longer afterwards because you hurt yourself. Just make up an excuse if you c…

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@hellomate408
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Great to watch these videos. I don’t have a group of gay friends to discuss these things with so it’s nice you share these conversations with the world. Thank you.

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@user-yb6tk1ru6x

Meng... Filters are catfishing... 😂😂😂

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@brianchau6574
9 · 4 replies↗ view

Applying filter is definitely catfishing !! No doubt 😀

neutralother
@whirlwindofmemories

The mental gymnastics Meng does in this video is insane to me lol

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@dagontheseatitan7846

Great video today guys really enjoyed the topic of the video. I loved the stories you shared they were interesting to listen to. Keep up the good work as always and can’t wait for the next video.

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@irememberla6460
5 · 1 replies↗ view

"Teeth are important..." 😂

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@PokhrajRoy.

Quote of the Day: “Ok, let’s be sex positive!”

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@johnathanmcfadden8978

I mean if someone finds you on Grindr it's because they are also on Grindr..... I never understood that... Like If you get caught that just means that the person that's catching you is also gay or into it....

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@martip2736

omg, Andrew's biceps and that vein... :O

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@mrsparkle9048

IDK, maybe I'm out of date here but in my mind, catfishing is specifically assuming a false identity to date/chat/manipulate/whatever someone.... the whole filter conversation feels a little overblown. If you are sending pictures of someone else, that's catfishing. If you're send…

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@suhakrihsu

Meng for sure do some catfish more than what he want to admit hehehe

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@dinodon2142
3 · 1 replies↗ view

I really appreciate these open conversations you guys have. You guys got me to try circuit parties and bath houses and I've never looked back. I credit being a hussy to you 2 haha

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@PokhrajRoy.

I’ve been subject to a few catfishing situations but my favourite ones are those who use famous celebrities as their profile picture.

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@stepheng9607

Gosh that was an education. I am so glad that my life is very simple, straightforward and not in Japan.

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@jamesphoenix1850

Everything mentioned here is catfishing, arguably makeup is catfishing as well. Maybe I'm just totally out of the loop in the UK, but all of the blindfold stuff is really disturbing to me, and feels really dangerous.

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@kevintso1

Great topic. Thanks guys. Sorry, but to answer the question of whether posting and/or sending pics which are not of yourself and/or not representing you now (eg very old pics of yourself) is dishonest; therefore catfishing! Understand motivation to catfish but like any transactio…

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@bryinasia

I almost never touch up my photos 🥹🥹 the most is like a filter, but nothing beyond adjusting that single slider ahaha. i feel like its a trap, even if i somehow made myself look super ultra hot in the photos… that just sets up the other person for disappointment when they event…

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@erich1998

I've only been catfished in Japan. I was so traumatized by it that I stopped using apps for a long time.

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@JayBeeMaybe

JFC This guy instantly drops to his knees in a room so dark he can’t see his paramours face and then complains after he’s milked the bull. 😂🤡Dude your moral compass is totally back to front. Thirsty much? 😂😂

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@mrxurd

You can try doing video call first before the meetup/hookup 😆

neutralother
@bryinasia

Omg the intro 💀🤣 Team KUUKI & KURIIMU where yall at?!?!

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@dami6722

Thanks guys for the video, always brightens my day ❤

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@dearlover

Love these videos. ❤

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@pauldiep88

AiScReam ✨ 🍫 🍃🍦🍓🍨🍪🍧💖

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@cdssussex

mmmmm a lie is a lie, no matter how it's packaged.

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@JorgieLlanos

Meng! Sending fake pictures of 🍑🍆 is catfishing 😭😭😭 it doesn't only apply to face pics. People should like you for what you have to offer, otherwise is not worth it.

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@The_official_jaijai

8:48 in China the AI filtering is CRAZYYYY!!!! The before and afters are WILDDDD!! 😂😂😂 10:01 yesss just like thattt hahah

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@Bergkatse2
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Andrew: I felt so much shame Meng: ☺️😊😀😃😄😁

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@truerthanyouknow9456

4:23 😆You guys are fun.

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@lljunglefever

Not the shark mouth 😂

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@Aikuchi

Oh .... what is this blindfold thing?curious!

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