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Vol. 1 · Issue 05 · May 2026
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Gays on Ghosting in Japan

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@joshazriel8007
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This channel is sooo refreshing!!!!!

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@shamae8982
13 · 1 replies↗ view

"after being ghosted so many times, I am so used to it" dang i feel u😭😂

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@JustGarde
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This is sooooo true!!! I've been ghosted several times in Japan and at first, I thought it was totally my fault, so I kept blaming myself. And then after several years of living there, I started not caring at all. lol

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@strawberryrnilk
6 · 1 replies↗ view

let me tell y'all when you showed parris' boyfriend... the way my mouth DROPPED

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@VS-zt5xw
6 · 1 replies↗ view

This happened with ALL the Japanese guys I dated and even half the people I made friends with. I figure it's just easier not to say anything and thats how they are, which is okay I guess. Thinking back after watching this, I think I should forgive someone for 'submarining'. There…

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@Shin-hi3ye
6 · 1 replies↗ view

I’m a Japanese living abroad. I happened to watch this video, and it was so fun to know how foreigners feel our typical behavior. I love your channel and look forward to see your new fun topics every week!

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@Dungeon_Ted
6 · 1 replies↗ view

Go on Parris give us that hope! ❤️❤️❤️

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@unnderneath
5 · 1 replies↗ view

It’s happened to me more times than I can count. It’s come to the point where whenever I meet somebody, whether or not it’s a romantic interest I keep them at a distance, so that they don’t have a clutch on my heart and I know I could walk away from them. Is this unhealthy? May…

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@michaelw1
4 · 1 replies↗ view

Paris’s boyfriend is SO perfect I am so happy for him and slightly jealous 😅💞

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@patr978
4 · 1 replies↗ view

I live in Manila. This ghosting is happening here too. I have a fair share of stories about ghosting but at least in the past two years, I have no problems at all. I just don't care whether they message me back or not maybe because I turned them as a friend with benefits instead …

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@stevenbabe4666
3 · 2 replies↗ view

I don’t think I have ever been Ghosted or Ghosted someone. I have faded out of someone's life and people have out of mine but that's natural. I think Ghosting is just rude and poor manners. Be polite and tell someone why you just don’t have the time or interest. You want some…

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@srichander2641

I'm 18 this yr and i just opened my grindr account 6months ago. It was so shit like people full of drooling and craving sex (I'm not saying sex is bad and no hopes on grindr but the level of craziness was awful) that I just stopped the shit and from then have never been using my …

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@Avilez65
1 · 1 replies↗ view

Lord I am so out loop with term. Lol I am learning so much

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@huhokayyeah
1 · 1 replies↗ view

Meng I would not ghost you 💖💖💖

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@danielintheantipodes6741
1 · 1 replies↗ view

Thank you for the video!

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@daniloyamasaki7676
1 · 1 replies↗ view

Love you guys ❤

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@charlonmamangun2626

The guest has a really great intellect,I enjoy his point of view very much. Would love to see more of him in a debate ep haha

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@Boymanjusri

In my opinion, this “ghosting” happens a lot because of 1. The degree of difficulty presumed to deal with a foreigner of a different culture. 2. The nature of being closeted in general and not acknowledging one’s sexuality at ease. 3. The stress and embarrassment for the person…

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@Love_TheArtist

Early in my dating career, I’ve been ghosted...actually, the person was suppose to meet me and while waiting at our decided location, a guy passed and was watching me (pretty sure it was him) and then walked away. Maybe that was more of a phantom...🤔 But I have never ghosted som…

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@Love_TheArtist

Legend of Giant Penis night?!...in Japan!? Please say you did a video or there is a video on this coming🤩🙏🏾

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@tancheehai5888

Hi, Meng, Andrew and Parris! Greetings from Singapore 🇸🇬 Over here, ghosting happens too. I am both the victim and perpetrator. From Tony 😊

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@Girlintress
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Ghosting is truly universal 😂 I'd love to see a video on like, bars and clubs and events that you guys like or that are popular? I was not out when I was in Japan so I never saw anything like that when I was living there, I want to know what to check out when I go back.

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@andrewjohnson2928
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Thinking about living and dating in Japan scares me. I think I would want a certain partner, and I am not just being picky. I also wonder what type of person would want to date a Christian....?

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@tabingedrian-gt3zf

To all people who ghosted, I want to say that there's nothing wrong with you, don't blame yourself and question your worth. Ghosting is bringing you in a right way.

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@OmarIsmaelRossi

OMG! As an argentine and latin american I´ve been thinking in going to knock his door and telling him "what´s going on!"... jajaa.. So dramatic! It´s hard in some way but remember, health comes when we can put words about the fellings we have. Silence is only a choice when there´…

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@KhalidHanna-1

Its not just in Japan. Its everywhere. It makes me sick.

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@arishem555

5:13 "cellphone shop" doesn't sound "intelligent" :-D

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@angelomaestroni

You can't excuse someone for gosting, just texting doesn't take any effort 😑

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@836882189
0 · 1 replies↗ view

黑人小哥全程在看Andrew, 為什麼Andrew 那麼好看🉑️🉑️🉑️

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@marcojacinto824
0 · 1 replies↗ view

I have been ghosted and I have ghosted people too. I have no idea about other people's reasons but for me it's like I get suspicious or unconfortable about someone and I can't think of any good racional explanation to give the person. That being said, once I ghost I won't come ba…

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@raelisjay
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After being ghosted for the first time a few months back, I kinda got numb lol. Got used to it immediately. Maybe I think somehow I realized how I expected so much from other people that I tend to become disappointed when they don't measure up to it, like expecting people to stil…

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@stephenbrooks9245
0 · 1 replies↗ view

I really enjoy your videos. I’ve only recently heard about ghosting so it was great to find this video and learn of your experiences. Thanks!

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@wjjrwjj

Never been ghosting

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@10-OSwords

Re: ghosting I'm coining the term 6th Sensing: when they ghost you but you keep seeing them @ the f-ing bar....(#PersonalProblems).

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@pollutedm1nd

Hahaha this is hilarious!!! Haunting! Little Haunter Pokémon.

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@Boymanjusri

Personally, I never really ghost anyone, I always answer people’s text message, but I have giving all kinds direct answers and indirect cues. In fact for me the biggest problem is gay people seem to be only interested in sex anyways, while foe me I much prefer friendship and com…

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@idontknowwhyihavesubscribers

Based on your definition, I was 'submarined' on and off for about a year, by a Belgian guy - not that his behaviour was 'typically Belgian' (as far as I know!). On paper, he was a catch. The night we met, I got c*ck-blocked big time (long story). So about a week later, I proposit…

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@MindfullyJae

Oh haunting/ submarining happens to me ALL the time, usually when I post a selfie and they definitely do pretend nothing happens (exes too). I didn’t know the term thanks sometime it’s not even 6 months it Ike bish I seen u on apps past 2 weeks but I guess the ‘grass isn’t greene…

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@truerthanyouknow9456

The current partner insta so cute

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@bradleyf3224
0 · 1 replies↗ view

Interesting vlog! Kinda sad commentary on some adult behavior, but within the Japanese context of non confrontation, makes sense, although I suspect that is also likely true globally 😉🇺🇸🌈

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