@TokyoBTM
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Come on tops! Like this comment, show your self <3
I’m a top from Canada. I heard many times from my friends the struggles and challenges of being a bottom and I have a lot of sympathy for all of you bottoms our there. Today, I’d like to share my perspective as a top. Unfortunately, today’s society has a tendency to encourage…
Tops just don’t like to fill out surveys 🥴🥴🥴
flipflop is better than sticking to one position.
This channel is giving me LIFE
I need to move to Tokyo. At least two hot bottoms ready to date.
I think the issue is psychological. Excuse me for using some words, just know that I'm coming from a very non-judgmental point of view but I'll refrein from thinking about my choice of words to make writing easier. Most gay people go through a similar experience of struggling thr…
All the Tops are married to women and sometimes with kids. So they aren't gonna go to clubs or gocons
My hubby and I are both ‘essentially’ Tops. We’ve been living together 22 years. 👍😉🌈🇺🇸
Being a bottom or a top is a sexual position preference. But being submissive and dominant is a different thing. I think the emotional "thing" the guy is blue is talking about has to do with him being submissive and wanting a dominant presence and that's why avoiding bottoms coz …
One can be a dominate bottom or a submissive top :)
Montreal is a city FULL OF TOPS it is heaven
never knew there are soo many btms in japan! going to japan asap!
I think it's a little unhealthy to identify with our sex roles. But it's very easy to, and I did throughout most of my adult life. Speaking from personal experience; I was a bottom until a health issue arose in my late 30s and I kind of went through an identity crisis. I ascribed…
I recommend you to go to Middle eastern or Arabic countries, there are a lot of tops..
My experience as a top is that there is 1 top for every 10 bottoms or 20 bottoms. I tried bottom, but it did nothing for me. I would love to feel the pleasure true bottoms feel, but I don't. As I age, being a top gets more difficult, because I am doing all the work, because bo…
Omg awesome content and sharp insights! I never thought of those things being straight. As Andrew says overgeneralization leads to stereotypes (like bottoms are feminine) which is bad cuz its basically the core issue regarding isms. I think healthy influence like getting inspire…
Q: What is a feminine top? A: A blouse.
Thank you for this content. As a very conservative asian guy who never experienced gay sex before, these information broadens my knowledge as i start to embrace my sexuality in this stage of my life.
We should perhaps differentiate between top/bottom and dom/sub. One set is a sexual position and one set is a sexual expression. You could be any combo of these : for example, a dom bottom (“bossy bottom or power bottom”) or a sub top (top that lets the bottom tell him what to do…
Hello from Moscow! Everything is the same here, bottom is everywhere, top is almost impossible to find 😅
There's an ancient saying, "there are two types of people in this world: bottoms and liars."
Exactly! Too many bottoms in Tokyo. I heard there are more tops in Philippine.
I’m a bottom. I also noticed that when I was staying in Tokyo, guys within the area are mostly bottoms.
I find it interesting to hear the "often being a bottom when you're young, becoming more generally a top when you get older" phenomenon still holds true for gay youth (I stopped being a Gay Youth decades ago) because although it was true for a lot of men of my generation, and gen…
I am planning to maybe move to Japan for studies in a few years and I just discovered you guys while looking for tips about living in Japan. I'm super happy that you decided to document your experiences, because they answer to a lot of questions that people don't usually talk abo…
Vers man here 👋 when do we get a segment lol
omg I've never felt so related to a content like this, I just wanna say after 22 years i got to understand things that really brought me ANXIETY ,, and i'm so thankful for u guys ure so adorable , decent, honest and authentic,, and I really love what u do . love love y'…
I think it happens in every country 😂
Well my weakness tbh is a muscular bottom
Nice topic. I agree that being top or bottom is not just the sexual position, but often means something more about how the person seems himself and how he sees his partner. It can be about masculinity, dominance and submission, self esteem or body image, confidence and maturity…
You guys have interesting discussions. You frequently talk about things that I've not thought much about before. I'm glad your channel showed up in my feed. So if I'm just hooking-up, I'm 100% top. But if I'm in a relationship, I'm happy to be a bit more flexible - say 80%. But …
I think Argentina has the most Tops according to the guys Ive talked too xD And they were a few Like 10 +
Very good conversation on a topic close to my heart. As a bottom who presents as muscular & ¨manly¨ ( for lack of better term) I most often attract bottoms. Many times I find myself attracted to the bottoms who are hitting on me. Listening to your conversation has made me wonder…
I'm one of 18% but it's still hard to find someone. 😹
Love the editing guys - makes already great content god tier :D
ALSO note that BL is generally made by cishet women for cishet women, not for gays.......
I can identify with Meng about the anxiety around topping. I'm a bigger guy so I'm not that hung (have lost some of it to the FUPA) and I've had some ED issues because of the extra weight (working on losing but it's a struggle), so, even though I identify as vers, I have bottomed…
what you said about anxiety is common. and what is anxiety? fear...being top carries a weight that not everyone wants to carry. being passive ends up being "easier" I spent my teenage years being passive for fear of being active/top. BUT I was forced to be active/top with a boyfr…
Wow, I have so much to say about this xD I love the detailed and reflected way you discuss. Personally, I didn't have a problem finding tops in Japan and as a social researcher I know that the perception of not having one or the other around is most likely due to biases. Keep vid…