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Grindr is NOT a dating app. It is a hook-up app. If you want a date, you’re using the wrong app...
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Grindr is NOT a dating app. It is a hook-up app. If you want a date, you’re using the wrong app...
"It's already so hard to be gay" 😂 preach
You forgot number 6 - the perfectionist. The one who is looking for the perfect hunk when they themselves are far from perfect.
YES thank you for talking about the scammers!! They were driving us BANANAS. I think I talked to like three of them before I started realizing... Nowadays if they immediately ask for my LINE or if their answers about visiting Tokyo for work sound suspicious...immediate block. …
I met this guy through Grindr in Kyoto, he's not Japanese but from another Asian country. He asked me to come over his apartment. When I got there, the lights were dimmed. His photos on the app wasn't him. When we we're cuddling, he told me I smell bad and needs to take a shower.…
I stopped using Grindr when the Chinese CEO of the company that bought the app said he didn’t support LBGT marriage, and when the Grindr writing team responded (can’t remember their eMag name), the CEO immediately fired them. Then the CEO gave a litany of excuses. I’m done with …
This channel gives me so much life! Grindr trash is real and when you're an open, genuinely kind person you keep making excuses for people and falling into the same traps. As someone who's unable to dismiss people instantly, I find myself wasting time on trash and feeling frustra…
I met my first and current bf on blued. I wasn't really expecting much that app since most people there are just looking for hookups, but it just happened.. we were on LDR for the first two years coz i was still a university student, then two weeks after my graduation i moved in…
Oh my God, the sexy Chinese guy scam! I lol-ed so much. It’s a textbook scam case by now 😁
"peaceful Grindr" is the best idea ever!
I’m honestly debating deleting my grinder. I feel like I’m there it ruins my view of the gay community and I feel like the only value I have is through my body and sex and its just never enough. :-( but it also feels like it’s the only way to meet a guy and other gay people :(
I can name a 6th type: People without any profile pictures who ask you to send them pictures even though you have several of them clearly on your profile as well as a link to a public Instagram account. These people are either very unintelligent or scammers who steal your picture…
I really enjoyed this one 😂❤️
So I just stumbled my way to this video. The only thing I disagree here would be the one on posers. You may need to empathize with people that need to build on their confidence. Calling people outright as UGLY is truly mean. It takes a certain amount of guts to post their real ph…
You both seem like such chill people. Also Meng has a beautiful smile. Really enjoying your videos.
Meng! You’re so cute! 😘
Not being on grindr has kept my skin clear and moisturized. Full disclosure: I only just now deleted scruff and growlr. 🤣
Andrew is soooo cute, wanna hold him in my arms
I completely disagree with the 'slow responder' thing.. Many people dont keep grindr on all the time, especially if they only use it sporadically.. They dont dislike you definitely but yeah but you can go ahead and ignore them cause they definitely wont have time for you
LOVED THIS! What about those guys who lead you on, make plans to meet, then delay and cancel them. Only to keep messaging you? FRUSTRATING!
LGBTQI relationships are so complex especially with Japanese. It’s good to recognize your own boundaries and strive to not settle for anything that would reduce your own quality of life. Always trade up.
When I visited Thailand about 2 years ago, I was warned to watch out for "money boys" online who try to trap / trick you into meeting up with them in person so that they can extort money from you.
It's a hook up app. I think You're expecting way too much from an app like Grindr.
Everytime I say someone is not my type, it ends in countless mails about how superficial I am and why not giving a chance... How much I dread gay dating 😅
REMINDER!! If you live in a place where LGBT+ aren't generally accepted. YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO OUT THEM. Even if they live in places where the society are much more progressive. Their decision to come out is theirs. Not yours. It's not fair to call them trash. You're a f…
It is all very well for gay men to marry women to cover up and it is none of my business, but I do hope he has informed the poor woman because she is going to be expecting a relationship, a full relationship, and she will only be receiving half a relationship at very best!
OMG! I met a guy (Chinese 🤷🏾♂️) on app and he also said he was looking for an investor and blah, blah, blah...glad I dodged that 🙏🏾😬
"These people are trash!" - love it. Absolutely love it. lol
IM new to your channel. The videos are great. Ive been to Japan a few times. Its really fun there.
I don't date guts without a face picture. Got catfished too many times and just so over it
Adding to the 4th point: There are also people who say that they are interested and attracted to you but they are too shy and lazy to respond to messages. I have been chatting with people with a busy work schedule, and that's fine. But not even responding with one message for a w…
WAIT A MINUTE QUEENS! Is Japan grindr different from US grindr(or other parts of the world)? You guys sound like you’re talking about E-harmony or Match.com? I’ve always used grindr just to hook up, not to look for relationships. But, NO SHADE, queens, I just discovered your chan…
Another level of "scammer" are the people who ask you for pictures, and then immediately block you once you've sent them. Those kinds of people piss me off. And if I could find you guys on Grindr, I would. Hehe. You'd both get a 🔥 from me.
I feel like grindr guys are so desperate that they are willing to make lies and fake promises so they can use you
You can't always trust photos, people lying about almost anything.
"Give us peaceful Grindr"
You’re both so beautiful, some of us are terminally ugly (mind you I don’t do Grindr). Love your videos.
Becareful of narcissists too. They exist everywhere.
Great video. Serious topic but hilarious humour! Thanks for brightening up my day!!
Great insights, Guys! Meng has such a wonderful smile! Good luck to you both!