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Vol. 1 · Issue 05 · May 2026
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Why Straight Guys Are Flirting With Me

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@kiwilemons737
69 · 1 replies↗ view

Meng is gonna go through his Sister Hong era and pack up these straight boys

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@HistoricGentleman
59 · 2 replies↗ view

Andrew’s straight friend playing gay chicken with the drinking of the shots knew that if it actually had proceeded to the actual act then he had the plausible deniability of the alcohol factor therefore not losing his “str8” card

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@6r4nd0n
37 · 3 replies↗ view

It sounds like these straight guys are using the same tactics that hosts use at host bars, where they throw on the charm and try to get the customers to fall in love with them in order to make more money 🤑

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@djlondon7956
32↗ view

Love this! Meng's all: Men just won't stop throwing themselves at me, I simply cannot cope! Andrew: Are they though? Are they really? Well, well, well... 😂😅❤

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@bearsbeetsbsgalactica
32 · 1 replies↗ view

My feed refreshed and this is my first introduction to you

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@The_Rainbow_Raven
26 · 4 replies↗ view

I had a straight friend that took me to dinner, bought me jewelry, made me his passenger princess, been around my family, (my step dad introduced us actually)surprised me with a trip and moved across the country with me. However he would still go on dates with girls and talk on t…

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@dramonmaster222
25↗ view

Is he flirting or is he just being friendly 🤔 With some it's hard to tell.

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@bryinasia
25 · 1 replies↗ view

What if hes bisexual or bicurious and is looking for someone to test things out with????? 🤓🤓🤓

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@hiddendiz7612
20 · 2 replies↗ view

2:05 Meng is like the 10th gay guy living in the S. Korea/Japan talking about the flirtatious trainers. I'm kinda surprised that they are going that far for client retention. On the other hand, some straight guys like the attention gay guys give them when they are handsome and …

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@daveobee
19↗ view

Is the trainer watching?

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@michaelw1
15 · 1 replies↗ view

If his girlfriend has no interest in going to the gym, it would be the perfect place (and profession) to try something with a guy. Plus if someone thinks his physical touching is going too far, he can just use the excuse he’s a PT.

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@kiwilemons737
14 · 1 replies↗ view

I really can't relate to falling for straight guys. My whole enjoyment of hooking up is being validated. I love being told things I wouldn't hear and feeling a mutual attraction. To settle for straight guys, it's like scraping the bottom of the barrel for the least amount of atte…

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@gatinhopretolp
12↗ view

People like to be liked. I flirt with people I'm not attracted to all the time, just because I get off knowing they like it. With guys I'm actually attracted to I say nothing, I'm terrified of them. Andrew is right. If Meng flirts back, they'll back off OR take the bait lol It's …

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@nicolasBoo
10 · 1 replies↗ view

There's nothing wrong with sleeping with your trainer, yoga teacher, masseur, pool boy and so on, everybody does it!

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@bondbond5397

Would you guys consider reacting to 'Heated Rivalry'???

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@sertralinehydrochloride2096

I have never commented on a video, but I have been a long time watcher of this channel- I just wanted to say as a gay dude I personally find it extremely offensive when a straight guy hits on me. That might sound extreme, but I find it to be very disrespectful- they do not care a…

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@Cre8tive1

Meng's new anthem 🎶 "it's Raining Men" by the Weather Girls 🤣🤣🤣

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@OmarIsmaelRossi

And sometimes narcissistic people love to play those games. He knows he's attractive and he's already playing the "chicken game". Some people loves hunting.

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@nightreader5879

I feel like I'm reading a speculative fiction novel. The word Byzantine comes to mind, and I'm here for it!

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@huhguun
5 · 1 replies↗ view

I’m delulu like this all the time

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@okeyjet

Great content thanks. Also. Need to know where you got that Godzilla from. Is it available online for overseas fans?

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@PokhrajRoy.
5 · 2 replies↗ view

Meng has a problem that I aspire to have 😂

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@USCanthony

Meng, I think your trainer likes your personality. You have the type of personality he is drawn too for male friends. He feels comfortable around you and he might be trying to extend some form of friendship that goes beyond the trainer/trainee relationship. That is what the invit…

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@mtnbkreric1

Hello from Edmonton 🇨🇦 great topic guys. I’m a late 50s gay guy, and I’ve been dealing with this my entire life, and still don’t know how to act, or what to say, sometimes. though I am a bit more confident now to call them out on it, but a lot of times, it’s just those “straigh…

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@matthewjay660

Meng, c'mon. Do the "Gay Agenda." Corrupt Straight boys to our ways. 🤭🦹🏻‍♂️Cheers Andrew. 🇺🇸🤝🇨🇦🇨🇳

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@TheAllenDiaries
4 · 2 replies↗ view

Delulu ✌🏼😂 I had several experiences where I was delulu too 😂😂 the thing is there are straight men that get comfortable around you and they see like their flirting but they’re not 😅

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@nemonemini

Another great conversation! Thanks Meng for voicing this struggle and Andrew for some excellent and wise advice!

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@ralphmoore4548

Bi Curious!

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@LuisSanchez-zj8id

Andrew and Meng: it was very nice to see both of you in the Takashii video about Shinjuku-Nichome. Very good idea.

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@briangold1227

I have found that younger guys in their 20's are more fluid, and do not identify as gay, but would willingly have a sexual encounter with another guy.

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@thepokekid01

After listening to Meng talk... a lot of this stuff sounds like Sexual Harassment whether they are into you not😅 Edit: I'd say Straight guys have a TON of fear of rejection. I know that is true, even with other guys. I've seen it too much and talked about it too much with other…

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@Pan-pan-pan-pan
3 · 1 replies↗ view

OMG MENG! The trainer guy just wants to be your friend. and straight guys arent all 100% straight. My best mate identifys as straight but he is flirty AF with me. I love him as my best friend, just as he does me. The Gay chicken stuff is spot on, and sometimes there is a little s…

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@riverjazz6401

You know what they say: "If an attractive guy makes a pass at you, it's flirting." "If it's an unattractive guy making that pass, it's harassment!" 😄

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@jonathonj1762

Meng is so charming🥰

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@tombjmcnie

Gay Chicken! That takes me back... Meng, your trainer and Masseur? They've seen the channel... You guys are approaching this all wrong. You have the power! You're paying these people! It's a cliche that service industry workers flirt with their clients; the women and gay men that…

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@Bastien-trx1

Your trainer is making you uncomfortable, it's harassment, end of story. This channel isn't very good at determining such things, it seems.

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@melancholicflaneur23

omg i had this conversation when i was.....12! darling, don't waste too much time on 'str8 dudes' they aint worth it

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@starfox9894

Two things are happening. He is flirting with you out of curiosity and he knows you like it, number one. And he also knows it's great for his job security as your trainer. Secondly, he is a bit curious but only in a visiting traveler type of way. This is the type of guy that …

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@nightreader5879

Are there any books, stories where this kind of gay chicken game is played? I'm thinking of a Friends episode with Chandler and Phoebe, and they were playing straight chicken.

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@dagontheseatitan7846
2 · 1 replies↗ view

Great video guys and enjoy the topic of the video. And as always keep up the great work and content and can’t wait for the next video.

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