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Meng experienced a dom sub relationship and was being used by the other two.
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Meng experienced a dom sub relationship and was being used by the other two.
It’s a power play kink, some couples enjoy that. Almost like role play. Poor Meng.
Story 1: They used you for their kink. Sorry that happened and you felt humiliated. You did nothing wrong but you made a new experience of what you don't look for.
Girl! Expecting something serious and emotional from a sauna is wild 😂 Ladies we are in our 30s!
If he didn't have any conversation with you, then you were never a person to him. Even if he is hot, it doesn't matter unless you have poor impulse control. If you wanted to be a sex doll, then it's ok. If not, then you really should enforce your boundaries.
I noticed that in a lot of open relationships, the one suggesting it first is the hotter one, while the other one is reluctantly agreeing so they can remain a couple, lol
You were just a pawn in their game. Your wants and needs were not part of their game. That is not an open relationship problem it is a power/control problem.
Open relationships are sweet dreams. Some of them want to use you, some of them want to get used by you, some of them want to abuse you, some of them want to be abused. I wanna be cherished and treated with love and respect and give back the same amount of love I get in return…
I've been in a relationship for 22 years and have had an open relationship for six years. Five months ago, we met our current trio. My contribution to this conversation is that respect for others is the deciding factor, regardless of whether you're single, in an open relationship…
The Sauna story is so Gross. "Dehumanised" is the word. Meng I feel for you but also why the fuck would you allow someone to treat you like that? "why do people treat me like this" - BECAUSE YOU LET THEM. Dude have some self respect.
Meng asks "why do I keep getting treated like this?" Answer: Because you allow it. Know your worth! Whether or not he is your type, is he 'your's' or someone else's? Answer: He isn't yours. Find your man. Casual relationships are exactly that. Enjoy them for what it is but do not…
I could not do an open relationship. I couldn’t manage it. Thank you for the video. Your insights are appreciated. 💯👍❤️
Thank you for being so open and vulnerable about your experiences. I'm not happy with the victim blaming comments. Sometimes we make mistakes or don't know what to do in the moment. Hopefully we can figure out what to do if it happens again.
You ARE a very nice guy Meng, look after your lovely self ❤
Awe! These people are giving all in an open relationship a bad vibe! I'm so sorry that this happened to you Meng. I'm not sure about others, but my partner are in an open relationship and are 100 percent not like that!
I don’t see what Meng’s issue is, he went to a sex party, so of course everyone is going to treat each other like “toys” 😮
Some bottoms (hello! Hi! Its me) like being treated like fleshlights, and want to be a hole at a Mare Market. Meng is not one of these bottoms, and thats okay. But its been said again and again, bathhouse sexual etiquette isn't the same as dating and he needs to stop treating the…
My experiences with people in open relationships have been pretty good. I wonder if they just happened to be more mature and/or secure... Maybe the first couple was not ready to be open or both tops so they use bottoms like a sex toy.. In my opinion, you can’t have a good sex wi…
Throwing back the cellphone was very immature and insecure about their relationship
Going to Bangkok to be just a hole… then shocked to be treated like just a hole. Just have fun and not overthink the interactions.
Go watch PILLION y'all to get at least some Hollywood representation that does touch upon this whole shenanigan...
I mean dehumanize and being in a gay sauna... There is nothing humanizing while having sex in a gay sauna... I think it should be considered a given that when you to into one of these spaces you should expect to go into completely impersonal sex. As long as there is consent (real…
Its so unfair when people take this as an excuse to hate on open relationships. Sex parties, sex apps (grindr etc) where the main focus is lust, IS NOT THE PLACE FOR YOU TO FIND A BOYFRIEND/PARTNER. IT WILL END IN A WRONG WAY. Idk why people find this so hard to understand
A big top hug to cheer Meng up (looking into your eyes 🤗🤗🤗)
That couple are ridiculously such miserable morons .This IG request scenario has been commonly taking place in any party .It is even like a gesture of making friends. I think all couple who going to wild parties have to come up with protocal to avoid letting this awkward situ…
Sorry you experienced this😢 However, let this be a lesson learned.
The gay community can be small and complicated, so when I meet someone it's one-on-one. One becomes two, then three, and the more people there are the more complicated it gets, so I've tried to avoid those kinds of relationships, especially in cruising spot.
So this was an interesting video to watch. My husband and I, I guess you can call it open, we are only open in the aspect of sex. We have been together for many many years and we both have a top preference. I will bottom for him, but I would rather top and he doesn't like to bott…
Wow that couple sounded dysfunctional. Better things are out there for you!
Omggg i feel gurlie, I've been there too D: But one thing to remember though: it's not on you. I agree, it does feel humiliating and dehumanizing at the time, because you're literally offering your body and the other people dont even seem to appreciate you at all and are totally…
Both of you come across as overly needy, especially the expectation that sex has to be wrapped in emotional validation. I don’t operate that way. I don’t kiss—partly for hygiene reasons—and I’m not interested in lingering around guys for hours at parties just to perform intimacy …
Definitely with both of the couple there is a very weird situation. Like best case scenario people actually talk to you, but it's kind of an awkward situation there when one of them is clearly not into it
Nice video. Please come to KL too as we are looking forward to meet you guys 🥰
Fiiirst so freakin fresh hahaahha
No no no, the power is not always in their court. Your power is to walk away from the bad situation. If your horny and want to get laid, well that's on you... Devaluing yourself to get laid, is a slippery slope for your self-esteem.
On a side note, I wonder if you guys have watched season 2 of the Boyfriend. If so I wonder what your thoughts are of them. I really enjoyed it as the episodes progressed 😊
Meng and Andrew are typical promiscuous gay guys. I am from Singapore and I love their vodcasts. I love their sharing of their personal stories and experiences as they often talk about typical issues that affect the gay community. My take about open relationships is that many of …
I don't care who you are. If you're screwing me you will be kissing me, also. Or it ain't happening.
That was not nice for that couple to completely ignore your needs. I think you should say no to that situation and have more respect for yourself and walk away of situations like that. You are not an afterthought, and the couple should be ready for the threesome and not be …
Wait, are you really looking for connections in the gay sex circuit with open relationship couples in a sauna? Why?